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The sacred feminine and masculine

Yin and yang, Shiva and Shakti, the Moon and the Sun. Every tradition describes two poles whose union creates life. The books of this journey see in it the key to awakening. As long as they are not confused with the roles of men and women, these two poles are present in everyone.

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Everyone knows the symbol: a circle divided by an S-shaped line, one half light, one half dark, and in each a small dot of the opposite colour. The taijitu, the yin and yang symbol.

The two books of this journey give great importance to this duality: "divine feminine" and "divine masculine", right hemisphere and left hemisphere, Moon and Sun, water and fire. Their union would be the condition for awakening. The intuition is ancient and beautiful. It deserves to be stated precisely, because it has often been used to lock people into roles.


Two poles in every tradition

The yin and yang symbol, and pairs of poles: yin-yang, Shakti-Shiva, Moon-Sun, receptive-active, welcoming-directing
The great pairs of poles. They describe qualities, present in every person, not genders.

Taoism. Yin is the shaded side of the hill, yang the sunny side. Yin is receptive, fluid, inward, nocturnal; yang is active, rising, outward, diurnal. Neither is better than the other, and each contains the seed of the other — that is the meaning of the two small dots.

Hinduism. Shiva is pure, motionless consciousness; Shakti, creative, dynamic energy. Without Shakti, Shiva is inert; without Shiva, Shakti has no direction. Indian iconography has a striking image of their union: Ardhanarishvara, a god whose right half is male and left half female.

Alchemy. The King and the Queen, the Sun and the Moon, sulphur and mercury unite in the coniunctio, the "chymical wedding", from which the philosopher's stone is born. Jung saw in it the image of psychic integration.

Hermeticism. The seventh principle of the Kybalion, the "principle of gender", says the same: in all things, an active pole and a receptive pole. We met it in the article on Hermeticism.


What needs clarifying

These poles are not sexes. Associating yin with women and yang with men reduces a cosmic symbol to a social stereotype. All serious traditions know this: every person, whatever their gender, carries both poles. A man can be deeply receptive, a woman deeply enterprising. The symbol describes qualities of energy, not destinies.

"Masculine" left brain, "feminine" right brain. One of the books links the left hemisphere to logical masculinity and the right to intuitive femininity. This strict division is a simplification that neuroscience has largely qualified: both hemispheres work together for almost every function. We already noted this about Hemi-Sync.

Fanciful etymologies. The same book derives the name Israel from "Isis-Ra-El". This is wordplay with no basis: the name comes from Hebrew and, according to Genesis, means "he who has striven with God".


What we keep

Balance as a path. Too much yang, and you exhaust yourself in action, control, willpower. Too much yin, and you dissolve into passivity, waiting, daydreaming. Awakening looks like a dance between the two.

Practice itself is a union. The out-of-body protocol is a perfect example: you must first set an intention (yang), then let go and welcome (yin). Willing without letting go blocks; letting go without willing puts you to sleep. The same movement is found in cardiac coherence: the in-breath and out-breath, equal.

The union that comes before the chariot. In this journey, this step precedes the Merkaba, whose modern image is precisely two inverted triangles, one rising, one descending, united around the heart.


Practice: breathing the two poles

  1. Sit with your back straight, hands resting on your thighs, the left palm up (receiving), the right palm down (giving).
  2. On the in-breath, bring attention to the open hand: I receive.
  3. On the out-breath, to the resting hand: I give.
  4. Do ten cycles. Then notice: which of the two movements comes most naturally to you? Which is hardest?
  5. For ten more cycles, give a little more attention to the one that is hard for you.
  6. Finish with both hands joined before your heart.

Over time, this practice reveals something very personal: where, in your life, one of the poles has taken all the space, and where the other is waiting.

There is no light without a cast shadow, no breath without a return. Union does not erase the two poles: it makes them dance.


Further reading

  • Tao Te Ching, attributed to Laozi.
  • C. G. Jung, Mysterium Coniunctionis, 1955–1956.
  • Genesis 32:28 — the origin of the name Israel.
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